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Agreeing to disagree

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Do your arguments get out of hand?
Here's something to try - a "conflict charter".
It's a way to agree about how you'll disagree. 
So at least you can agree on something!
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                                OUR CONFLICT CHARTER


We  _____________________________   and     ______________________________

agree that when we disagree about something we will both choose to:

1.

2.

3.

4.

If either of us breaks this agreement during a conflict, the other person is to:


And then we will do:


with the goal of managing our conflicts in a kinder and more effective way.

Signed

____________________ and ____________________

Date ________________


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